Friday, February 5, 2016

{No fuss} Family Dinner ideas


It's Friday night, my favourite evening of the week. I love the feeling of taking a deep breath and knowing we have the weekend to exhale and recharge. (Not all weekends are time off, but most of the time we get to have a break for at least one of the days.)

I like to take Friday day to fix the house up, do a general "big" clean so that the weekend is relatively stress free. Anyone else of the personality type where you can't relax if you knew the sink was full, or the floors need swept/mopped? I drive my husband nuts at night when I can't sit down if there is something like that needing done. But it's worth the extra few minutes getting it done so I can fully chill out and watch a movie without feeling irritable.  I should do a post on my house cleaning methods. By no means am I implying my house is constantly clean, as i'm actually constantly behind on many things, but I do have a relatively well working schedule that keeps the house manageable and presentable. I'm learning every day, and am still looking for a laundry fix. Anyone with a blog post that tackles that brilliantly?

Ok, onto my Friday night post. I wanted to share how we keep our tradition of a family Friday night. We tend to have a relaxed school day as we do a 4 day week like many homeschoolers, but I sneak things in throughout the day that aren't "lessons" that they realize. So today we had a sock matching party where we included matching, counting, discussing how socks are made etc. We also went to the store to return a couple items and pick up diapers and wipes, so we discussed saving money and included them in adding the prices, and I explained about the coupon system. So little things like that become lessons along the way. 

I plan the meal that we are having early in the day so that if it's a slow cooker we start in the morning. Today we stuck with an old British classic Cottage Pie, and I wanted to make the dessert something the kids would have fun with, but also something Clyde and I could have for our at-home date night treat.  

Cottage Pie, if you don't know is much like Shepherd's Pie but it is made with beef, not lamb. I make my own recipe that has been the way my family back home made it, but I attached a very similar one here for you guys if you were interested in whipping one up yourself. {Please, excuse the already dug into pics, I forgot to snap one before we dished up the kiddo's portions!)



 Then for dessert, I didn't want to buy anything in special so I was trying to think of something I could make with ingredients I had at home, but as I was buzzing around Kroger I found some strawbs & kiwis on clearance (don't you love those little red stickers when you spot them on something you love! I always feel like I won. Haha!), they definitely looked like they would need to be used up that day and so I immediately knew what I was going to make for a date night treat. Fruit Pizza!

The kids love to help with this, so if you want a family activity too this is a great option. Throw together your favourite sugar cookie recipe (this is a great one, and you'll more than likely always have these ingredients on hand) and roll onto a greased tray and bake for 10-13mins, whip some cream cheese and powdered sugar together and use as you would use the tomato sauce on a pizza, and then add "toppings". Get creative if you have fun things in your fridge/cupboard! We have done individual pizzas before so they can decorate their own cookie.



Needless to say, they went down a treat!!!


My thoughts on family dinner is to aim to have at least one a week that is when everyone sits down together and chats. Most nights the children eat first and we eat after they go to bed so that we can have some quality time together, and eating together seems to be a good way to have that catch up time. I don't know about your children, but our dinner times tend to be loud, fast paced and with all the second servings, drink fillup moments, napkin grabbing and catching the baby's flying food we wouldn't have too much time to talk as adults, so that is why we like to wait. BUT, the children LOVE family dinner and so it's a time that I try to make happen. I don't put pressure on myself to make it like a TV family, we sometimes eat dessert off napkins (see above) and the children use their water beakers (these stay out all day on the counter so we don't have 196,870 cups to wash at the end of the day) to drink from to avoid unnecessary cups being dirtied and the volume is off the charts, but I love hearing what they have to talk about, and the things that make them snort with laughter. There is a lot of giggling. 

I always prefer to force myself and the husband to try and cook something as it's so much more satisfying than a take-out, even better is knowing you've saved $$! 

The kiddos make sure to have changed into jammie's before we eat, so all we have to do is brush teeth before bed, so after dinner we snuggle on the couch and watch a movie, or play a game (usually the game is chosen and then they spend the entire time wrestling their daddy and so the game doesn't get played) or their current favourite is to sing karaoke on their machine that Grammie and Papa bought them. So much fun! Even the littlest loves to sing. 

Well, that's my little tidbit of info into a fun family dinner night, keep it simple, keep it homemade and just enjoy each other. I think Friday is a fun day as you get to go into the weekend in good spirits, and it is deserved after a day of cleaning and prep for a couple days off. 

I wanted to share a couple of my fave moments this week:

{This little guy finished his science book and was SO proud. He is ahead in science and just loves
the subject. So we are moving on to 2nd grade now. THIS is why I love homeschool. 
He get's to learn ALL subjects, but excel in the ones he loves, all at his own pace.}


{These two. They have a special bond, it definitely seems like a "we are both naughty pickles"
 bond, but scrumptious all the same. The giggle and giggle together and I have no clue
 what about most of the time, but I love that a 6yr old will sit with his 1yr old 
brother and entertain him without being asked or bribed.}


I hope you all have at least a little bit of rest this weekend and get to enjoy some family time together. We have some organizing planned, we are sorting out old baby bits to sell/giveaway and catching up with laundry/setting out clothes that don't fit. I weirdly enjoy stuff like this though, so i'm looking forward to it.

Happy Weekend friends! 
~Stay well, xoxo

1 comment:

  1. That’s really good! What are your plans for next party? I think you should take your family to a dinner party. I just took my family to one of best venues in Los Angeles. We all had so much fun over there on my birthday.

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